Christmasing on Long Island

As I drive along Sunrise Highway and listen to the seasonal music pumping from my speakers, I can't help but notice the many symbols of the holiday emblazoning my path.

Almost every city has a tall tree or pole covered in lights and many even light up a menorah and take the time out to make sure they have the appropriate candle lit for the days of Hanukkah. A little attention to detail that goes a long way to remember those of the Jewish faith. The way a town makes sure to include other faiths during Christmas is an important trait of true Christmas spirit. The individuals that argue to keep Christ in Christmas are those who believe they are truly loyal to their faith, however they are acting as a complete contradiction to their religion. The God that I know accepts all people, all beliefs and all cultures. He does not pick and choose who and what to love. He finds a tiny place for every single individual in His heart and His love is omnipresent. It is the same way that Santa Claus finds a moment of his time for every child at midnight on Christmas. He does not discriminate because even if a child is naughty, they still receive the gift of a Christmas lesson that is priceless: treat others as you would like to be treated, for you will ultimately be judged and you will receive what is just deserved.

Unfortunately, with the hustle and bustle at this time of year, people remember their credit cards and forget their manners. And with this year's recession, it is mutual respect, not money, that is more absent than ever. So, when you spot someone rushing through the mall or the parking lot, just take a moment to be thankful that you can savor the joys of the season, and maybe even stop and smell the cocoa. You will be happy you did because Christmas is not about what you buy, it's about what you give, whether it's a donation, a hug, a kiss, a handwritten note, a tray of cookies or a 55" LED TV. You are actually giving someone their smile and showing them you care. So, turn up the sides of your mouth and smile back, that's what Santa and Jesus would do. As a result, you will be filled with the holiday spirit that just might last the whole year through.